Tag: BJJ

  • Ten Reasons to Fall in Love with Jiu Jitsu

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    It’s coming up on Valentine’s Day where we show appreciation, adoration and affection for who and (today) what we love. We take time to articulate WHY we get that warm fuzzy feeling when that special someone (or something) crosses our mind. Thus, I want to talk about Jiu Jitsu and why I LOVE Gracie Barra Jiu Jistu in Mansfield, TX.

    I am in withdrawal. I have actually been healthy, but my poor Spawn has been bringing home a string of seriously contagious bugs (I.e. stomach flu) and managed to infect Hubby and my mom and, because I LOVE my BJJ peeps?

    I am nice enough not to share the experience of praying for death in the middle of the night with a stomach ache.
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    Yeah I am classy like that.

    But here is me.

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    Last night I was woefully looking at pictures of all my BJJ friends who I miss DEARLY and it made me really start thinking about why I love them and Jiu Jitsu and I have come up with the TOP TEN REASONS to Fall in Love with Jiu Jitsu.

    10. If you train as a family it is not only legal to arm bar your spouse, GF/BF, child…but encouraged 😀
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    9. It’s legal to choke people.

    Unlike that guy who’s honking me at a RED FREAKING LIGHT because I was refusing to block an entrance to a school just so we all could WAIT at the RED LIGHT…closer. Choking him? Totally illegal.

    Bummer 🙁 .

    Really, Buddy? Just freaking REALLY.

    8. You learn that real friends still love you even after using you as a human Swiffer.
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    7. It’s really awesome exercise.
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    So you sleep better, feel more relaxed (probably because choking people legally can be cathartic), and it limbers up those muscles that get tight from sitting at the computer on Facebook too long.

    6. You make friends without the aid of alcohol.

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    Face it. When you get to be an adult, making friends is no easy task. When we were kids, it was as simple as, “You have a bike? I HAVE A BIKE! OMG! We must be best friends!” These days, for folks who aren’t into a bar scene, finding a way to socialize is no simple deal. But, with Jiu Jitsu? No problem.

    Of course, you can add alcohol later. Sometimes helps *limps away*

    5. You make REALLY good friends.

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    As in friends who can and WILL beat up anyone who messes with you. Yeah, dude at the light revving your car and threatening me? I am looking at YOU. I know people who will omoplata that sass right out of you.

    4. Jiu Jitsu is similar to Fight Club and you have friends…you don’t even know you HAVE.

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    Seriously. I wear my Gracie shirt everywhere. It’s like those Barbie shoes my mom had to sneak in and steal and burn so I would stop wearing them because I’d long ago outgrown them but they were just TOO AWESOME.

    Anyway…

    One day I’m in another town having lunch. They guy at the counter is all, “Oh, you do Jiu Jitsu.” *wink, wink* *gives me extra brisket then slinks back in shadows with a knowing smile*

    I feel part of Project Mayhem already. We meet, beat each other up and the only difference is we aren’t planning on taking out the credit card companies and we are encouraged to tell others about Fight Club Jiu Jitsu.

    3. There IS a certain BAD@$$ Factor
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    And what is NOT to love about that? Hey, I’m a 41 year old MOM who drives an SUV. I need all the help I can get. It can be tough when you get older. You don’t want to be ridiculous, but you might not quite be ready to talk about fiber supplements with friends. BJJ helps us create that nice MIDDLE ERA where we are still kind of…okay incredibly cool even if we are “old.”

    2. You get to hang out with Professor Young.

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    Well worth paying for. This guy is AMAZING. You cannot be unhappy being around the guy. NOT KIDDING. Having a bad day? Spend three minutes with Professor and you will be all better. It is weird and if he goes missing, we know he’s been abducted by either the government or the pharmaceutical companies who are going to study him.

    1. You can protect yourself and those you LOVE from harm.

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    Woe be to the bully who messes with my kid or frankly anyone I care about. Love is a verb and what better way to express love for another person than volunteering to get beaten up multiple times a week all so you can keep THEM safer?

    THAT is love.

    Awwww. Man, I get all choked up at that.

    Happy Valentines! I love you all. I miss my BJJ Brothers and Sisters. There is SO much to love about Jiu Jitsu that one little post cannot convey what you simply have to experience for yourself. Gracie Jiu Jistu is not a sport or a hobby or a workout…it is a LIFE. And a very cool and rewarding one at that.

    WE LOVE YOU! To show our love, if you want to check out the BJJ experience come by and get a free month. My plan is to be back this coming week. Kid was up sick coughing last night again and I was all, “I’ll get you a pony of you STOP THAT!! I miss Jiu Jistu 🙁 ! You’re killin’ me, Smalls!”

    What are your thoughts? What do you love about Jiu Jistu? How does it simply make your life all better? Am I right about Professor? YOU CANNOT BE IN A BAD MOOD AROUND THE MAN! It’s science.

    Happy Valentines!

    ~Dojo Diva

  • Three Ways to Lay WASTE to Bad Habits & OWN Your Goals in 2016

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    Ah, the NEW YEAR is upon us! 2013! Wait, 2015? Dang it! I’m a mom. Hold on *looks at phone* There it is. 2016! *rewrites check* Dang it. Gracie Barra Mansfield, the premier learning center for Brazilian Jiu Jitsu in the Fort Worth, Arlington, Mansfield area hopes you enjoyed the holidays and we hope you will join us for the New Year.

    Maybe try something cool! Different! Exciting! Get in shape AND learn to be a a bad@$$ at the same time!

    Whether you’re a longtime BJJ student or a newbie. Never been to class or need an armed escort to drag your lazy tail TO class, there are some ways you can adjust your thinking and your approach to help ensure you reach your goals.

    No I am not a black belt yet, but I am a master at laying waste to goals..

    Thing is most people fail before they ever begin. Science has proven again and again that the mind is far more powerful than the body. Our minds actually give out long before our bodies do. If we’re having a tough time reaching those goals and getting in shape? Often it’s because we started out training the wrong muscle. We need to begin with the one between our EARS.

    One of the reasons that I am a huge fan of Jiu Jitsu training as opposed to other forms of fitness is that Jiu Jitsu trains us to be strong, but also TOUGH.

    There really IS a difference.

    Toughness is a matter of the MIND. It is a domination of the WILL. It is subduing the ego and pressing on in spite of odds, in the face of discomfort. In our modern climate-controlled world, toughness is easy to get lost. We have AC when we are hot, heaters when cold. Cushions in our shoes. We work at desks and not with our hands. If it hurts, we stop. If we are hungry, we eat. Nothing exactly wrong with that, except that the most successful people in ANY area of life are TOUGH.

    Becoming a S.E.A.L. is less about who is in the best shape or we’d just recruit from the Olympics. In business, the people who do the best are those who, when faced with crippling setbacks…stay cool. They remain positive. People who do the best in their marriages or with their children or with their finances have mastered the art of pressing through pain.

    That is ALL in the mind. Today, we are going to go through some easy ways to get started because you can start this TODAY and it will help you with any kind of goal.

    TIP #1—Self Talk

    Did you know that the human mind cannot tell the difference between a truth and a lie? That is why it’s not only important what we say to others (family, spouse, kids) but to ourselves.

    Additionally the brain has a really weird way of only beginning to LISTEN at the first ACTIVE verb. This is why all goals should be phrased in the positive.

    If you SAY:

    Don’t forget your keys.

    Your brain will HEAR:

    FORGET your keys.

    Thus, if you make a goal of:

    I don’t want to be fat.

    Brain hears:

    Want to be fat.

    If you SAY:

    I don’t want to be broke.

    Brain HEARS:

    Want to be broke.

    Get in the habit of speaking in positive action. I don’t want to be fat becomes I want to be lean and fit. I don’t want to be fat and tired becomes I want to be trim and have plenty of energy.

    Do this with regular stuff. Instead of, Don’t forget your phone say Remember your phone. Try this on your SPOUSE, YOUR KIDS, PETS AND COLLEAGUES!

    See! At Gracie Barra Mansfield…we also offer MIND CONTROL!

    TIP#2—Baby Steps are Steps

    Another way we self-sabotage it we overwhelm ourselves instead of piecing out large goals into small manageable actions and then giving credit that we ARE moving forward. We feel that because we aren’t seeing HUGE changes, then what we do doesn’t matter.

    But I am here to tell you that glaciers carved the Rocky Mountains and they move at an inch a year.

    I am a three-time best-selling author. A blog post I wrote a couple days ago had 15,000 views in a matter of HOURS.

    But guess what? I didn’t start that way. My first blog had 35 visits and 33 were me checking my own site (not knowing I was counting as a hit *head desk) and 2 were spam bots. But I kept showing up. Day after dat after day.

    My blog stats. The first year registering (smallest bar) is 6,700 views…TWO YEARS into blogging.
    My blog stats. The first year registering (smallest bar) is 6,700 views…TWO YEARS into blogging.

    Last year in January I was a one-stripe white belt who’d just gone into remission from four months of Shingles. My resolution? Make blue belt by 2016. It was ugly. I got injured. I got sick. But it was just baby steps. Day after day. One grappling session at a time.

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    TIP#3—Set Up a System of Accountability

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    Gracie Christmas Party!

    Our brains do better with accountability. Has to do with mirror neurons and getting dopamine rewards when you show up to class versus having to hide from your Jiu Jitsu pals blowing up your phone wanting to know WHERE YOU AT AND U BEST BE DEAD, PLAYAH (which is weird because that text is from a 41 year old soccer mom taking BJJ with you).

    Stop listening to so much FloRida!

    Anyway…

    Time and again, research demonstrates that people who set goals and then who have people and a system of accountability are far more likely to succeed. Why I love BJJ is I love the people. If I don’t show? Trust me, they notice. It’s different than being a faceless person slinking unnoticed in and out of a gym.

    In the end, these tips WILL help but we do have to fall in love with the process or nothing will work. It’s easy to fixate on a black belt or a fit body or a fat wallet or a bigger house and what happens is we lose steam in the inevitable Span of Suck.

    Every goal worth going after WILL have what I call the Span of Suck. If you write a book? You get the bright idea and writing is SO FUN…until it isn’t. Then there is the long slogging to finish. Want to lose weight? First days in the gym are great. The Span of Suck is the next months or years of doing the same things day after day and being RELENTLESS.

    Jiu Jitsu is awesome training for learning to BE RELENTLESS. Making RELENTLESS a HABIT. A STATE OF MIND. A RELIGION. Be relentless in BJJ, relentless in your career, relentless in love and LIFE. Sign up today and learn self defense, get fit, make friends, but the toughness training? The training to be an UNSTOPPABLE FORCE OF NATURE? THAT is the beauty of Jiu Jitsu.

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    At Gracie Barra Mansfield, you are part of a team. You are not alone.

    We hope you will come join us for some free classes and fall in love!

    Happy New Year!

    ~Dojo Diva

  • Set a Goal – Get a Deal. 2016

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    Looking for an exciting new goal for the New Year?

    Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is the fastest growing Martial Art around the world. Everyday tens of thousands of practitioners come together to get fit, release stress, and gain confidence by learning this amazing art.

    Testimonial 1: “Gracie Barra has changed my life! Training here is so encouraging and humbling! The challenges we all overcome on the mats together have empowered me to better deal with my daily challenges off the mats”

    Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu will change your life forever! If you are looking to get started on a new activity that will help you achieve your fitness goals while keeping you motivated and enjoying a more balanced routine, look no further!

    Gracie Barra is your place! The Blue Belt is Your Goal!

    Testimonial 2: “I have tried every gym and fitness program in town. Nothing seemed to get me off my couch when I came back from work. All that is part of the past now! I lost 10 pounds since I joined GB last then 3 months ago!”

    Gracie Barra believes in Jiu-Jitsu and what it can do for you! Let’s work together to bring out the best version of yourself in 2016.

    The first month is on us 🙂

    Contact us now!

  • The Burden of BJJ Beautiful—Our Dojo Goes Hollywood

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    Last night our dojo was blessed to take part in an extraordinary event. A camera crew filming for a nationally televised show (Mann vs. Mann) used our dojo for a show. At first the plan was to include the students in the show. Upon hearing this, I did what any reasonable person in this situation would do. I woke up early and made a pot roast so that my husband would have dinner…and then listed our house on the market for sale because HELLO?

    Um HOLLYWOOD???

    Of course, I should have known better. It never happened. We were made to stay off camera. Why you ask?

    I’d heard rumors of such a phenomenon but only thought it was that…rumor. It hasn’t had a name until I needed a blog post NOW.

    BJJ Beautiful.

    Apparently there is something about Brazilian Jiu Jitsu that just makes one unusually attractive. I know! RIGHT? It seems ludicrous at first, but think about it. Why are there no GRACIE JIU JITSU MOVIES? We have Kung Fu, Karate, Kempo, Aikido…but not ONE grappling flick.

    Sure, you could be thinking it’s because trying to shoot sweaty men rolling around on the ground grunting and hugging each other isn’t nearly as dramatic as a Jackie Chan scene where he kills five men with a two swizzle sticks and a Pumpkin Spice Latte.

    But I think there is something FAR more nefarious at work here. NO, NOW I KNOW there is.

    Like I said, we students were supposed to be in the show, but then, the stars were “running late.” UH-HUH. OR, they didn’t want to compete with…THIS!

    Oh MY GOD, BECKY. LOOK at her CHOKE!
    Oh MY GOD, BECKY. LOOK at her CHOKE!

    Brangelina? Choked her OUT!
    Brangelina? TAP OUT!

    The reason there are no Gracie Jiu Jitsu movies is because Hollywood would implode. There, I said it. The 500 pound gorilla in the room. I called him out and arm-barred him. You’re welcome. Because my BJJ Brothers and Sisters have suffered in silence long enough.

    Maybe you thought something was wrong with you. Maybe you thought that people were backing off because you probably should have washed the gi after Day Two. Maybe your grappling partner’s neck was red because of beard burn. But maybe, just maybe, it was an affect of BJJ Beautiful. That being that close to so much attractiveness…has consequences. Real physical consequences.

    Flying too close to the sun, man.

    And you probably think I am crazy and you’d likely be correct. But here is some proof. First, the KIDS.

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    Girls don’t need TIARAS! They need tap outs!
    Child stars? Just redo your resumes….
    Child stars? Just redo your resumes….

    Still not a believer?

    I was documenting the filming of the show and captured THIS!
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    And THIS…
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    Did you see it? See what I am talking about? EXACTLY! You didn’t see it! Not ONE good straight-on shot of Professor Young’s unusually attractive FACE!
    Granted, it could have been me being too distracted doing my own head shots just in case an agent called…

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    She can ACT, TOO!

    More likely, it was because Jiu Jitsu makes you unusually attractive. Can’t you see? They couldn’t have the STUDENTS in the shot because then the fans might love us, but it would have been totally weird for Professor NOT to be on the show. But they could still SHUT HIM DOWN. I wouldn’t be surprised if they pixilate his face once it airs… *rolls eyes*

    Or Photoshop in some boxing. Just saying.

    I am breaking this news to you so the truth gets out there. I stayed up all night making stuff up interviewing REAL people affected by being BJJ Beautiful.

    Here are just a few of their stories. Their names have been altered to protect the BJJ Beautiful…

    Davido Salguerra

    Before Jiu Jitsu, I would have never contemplated getting tattooed eyeliner, but when grappling, who wants that mess all over their gi? Try explaining THAT to your girlfriend. If she doesn’t grapple, she has NO clue about what it means to be BJJ Beautiful and she just thinks you’re cheating.

    Being BJJ Beautiful is a blessing but also a responsibility. That blue gi enhances my eyes, but it’s my job to take that to another level, just like I do with anything else in Jiu Jitsu.

    J. Fabio Pohlak-Sky

    BJJ does make you better looking. I didn’t believe it. Friends who were grapplers tried to prepare me, to warn me, but grappling seemed too cool not to take a chance.

    I’m glad I did.

    Before I signed up for Gracie Jiu Jitsu I never would have thought of becoming a model. Now? What can I say? The future is limitless…

    Dr. D’Shawn Mouse

    I began in another form of martial arts so I never expected this. I just thought you put on a gi and trained, that ground-fighting was an excellent form of self-defense and a wonderful way to stay in shape. But it was SO much more. Nothing could have prepared me for being this unusually attractive, though my wife loves it.

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    It’s been an adjustment. I love Jiu Jistu, but I want someone who loves me for my mind.

    Jiu Jitsu has always come with its share of challenges. Sprains, strains, injuries. But NO ONE has ever dared talk about the burden of being unusually attractive. It takes an extra dose of humility so that others don’t feel strange hanging out with us. We have to remember that there are others who are beautiful, but not everyone is BJJ Beautiful 😉 …

    If you suffer from BJJ Beautiful, feel free to leave a comment and share your story or even how you’ve embraced being unusually attractive. If you are still in transition from another less-attractive sport, call our imaginary hotline 1-555-WER-FULLVCRAP

    ~Dojo Diva

  • How to Handle Injury in Jiu Jitsu

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    Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is often called the “gentle art” because it can be practiced by any age, but like any sport, injuries can happen. Since BJJ is not a striking sport, broken noses and knocked out teeth are not nearly as common. But, BJJ is physically demanding and comes with its share of strains and sprains. At Gracie Barra Mansfield we offer fun for the whole family in a safe environment, but this is a sport and well…stuff happens. So, when stuff happens. When we overdo it or maybe push way too hard, what do we do?

    Preventing Injury

    As the saying goes, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Since we know we are engaging in a full contact sport, there are some ways we can avoid injury, which is obviously preferable.

    Flexibility

    Stiff muscles are strained muscles (or torn). I know I work a sedentary job that has me leaning over a computer all day which makes me stiff. This means it is up to me to add in flexibility training (yoga). That 10 minutes of warmup at the beginning of class is the bare minimum to get warm. If you know your flexibility isn’t that great, it would be a good idea to work on this outside of class.

    Being flexible will not only improve your rolling, it will help you avoid injury. Supple, flexible muscles and joints have a far greater range of motion and this lessens the chances for injury.

    Strength Training

    Again, sometimes we need to add in additional training outside of the dojo. When we roll regularly, we are taxing all kinds of muscle groups, but we may not be working them evenly. A good way to keep our bodies injury-free is to make sure we are training all muscle groups. It is easy to overtrain certain areas at the expense of others.

    If we work biceps, then we must also work triceps for balance. Work abs? Make sure to work the lower back as well. When I roll I tend to use the right side of my body more (being right-handed). Thus, I need to make sure that I train the left side (at the gym) to avoid overtraining one set of muscles.

    Don’t Be a Hero

    I’ve talked about this before but it bears mentioning again. When in doubt? Tap out. I used to fight every single submission and, yes, a lot of them I could wriggle free from, but was the pain and soreness worth it? The strained pectoral I have had to baby for months because I didn’t want to admit my opponent had gotten me in an arm bar? Live and learn and move on. This is not the UFC.

    Now if I even think someone has a submission, I tap out and war-game how I landed in the bad spot to begin with so I can learn.

    White belt is a long…long journey. No need to make it any longer.

    Slow Down

    Again, we’ve talked about this before, but this is an especially tough lesson for white belts. I am still learning it. When we grapple, we need to learn to do it with control. Going too quickly or lurching or flinging into moves is just a good way to get hurt or hurt someone else.

    What to Do When Injured

    Ouch.
    Ouch.

    STOP

    I’ve been the idiot who just kept rolling even when I knew I’d probably strained something. In Jiu Jitsu we have to learn to listen to our bodies early. If you think you hurt yourself when rolling, just stop. Better to miss 30 minutes of rolling than a month.

    ICE

    I HATE ice. It is wet and uncomfortable and whiiiiiiiine. But, ice is key for reducing inflammation. Heat might feel good, but it will make inflammation even worse and when the tissue is gorged with blood and swollen? It isn’t going to heal. This means for a new injury, stick to ice. Wait a good three days before using any heat.

    When we injure a muscle, ice shrinks capillaries stemming any blood flow to minimize swelling, and it numbs nerve endings which will help with pain. I use bags of cheap frozen vegetables wrapped in a thin kitchen towel. Peas are my favorite because the bag can be molded to conform to the injured area.

    ROTATE ON 5s

    If you have a more significant injury, you can use heat after three days, but rotate it with ice. Always start with ice and then end with ice. Five minutes ice then five minutes heat.

    5 Ice–> 5 Heat –> 5 Ice –> 5 Heat –> 5 Ice

    Heat is good for adding some suppleness back into the muscle. So if you are stiff, feel free to use some heat to get the blood flowing into that area before working out.

    We just have to be careful with heat. Heat is going to dilate capillaries and increase blood flow. This is good for getting stiff muscles moving and for getting rid of soreness but if we have a strain or tear we could be doing more harm than good.

    ELEVATE

    Again, the key to speedier healing is to make sure to contain inflammation. Inflammation is bad juju. So if you’ve injured an area that you can elevate? I.e. an ankle. DO IT.

    REST

    This is a tough one. Lately, I’ve had a strained pectoral and it has been a serious pain (literally) to rehabilitate. My physical therapist has told me to rest, but I will be the first to admit that I am a lousy judge of when I am okay to get back in the game. I believe I’ve rested enough but…yeah. No.

    Take it slow. BJJ will be there when we return.

    Natural Remedies

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    Tumeric can be used to ward off inflammation. I use this for cooking, but it can also be taken in capsule form or made into a poultice to take down inflammation and ease joint pain. I also HIGHLY recommend Dr. Singha’s Mustard Bath for soaking away pain.

    Just remember that Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is a fantastic workout that can keep you lean, fit, flexible and healthy. Like any sport, it comes with bumps, bruises and strains but by being careful and listening to our bodies we can ensure we can continue to enjoy the sport for years to come!

  • Grappling for Dummies—5 Tips to Improve Your White Belt Journey

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    Here at Gracie Barra Mansfield, we are your Brazilian Jiu Jitsu connection. We are here to help you stay safe and have fun doing it. I am Dojo Diva and I am not a real MMA fighter, I just play one on XBox 😀 . Also, I am a 41 year old mother who’s been practicing BJJ for over a year and a half so I am living proof that Jiu Jitsu really IS for everyone.

    I’ve taken other forms of martial arts, but what makes Brazilian Jiu Jitsu highly unique is that you stay a white belt for a long…long…looooong time. The difference between a new white belt who still has the creases in his new gi and a four-stripe white belt who’s been training for a year or more is pretty amazing.

    Especially when you’ve been on the journey yourself.

    I am hovering on the precipice of earning my blue belt, which is why I am always hesitant to give any kind of martial arts “advice.” I know I am NOT a black belt and don’t pretend to be. Every moment on the mat is a reminder of all I still have yet to learn.

    But, since the most common belt for those practicing Jiu Jitsu is the white belt, I thought maybe I could give some tips to help shorten the learning curve. As much as I love Jiu Jitsu, the simple reality is that not everyone who starts training as a white belt ever makes it to blue. Sometimes it is just life, time, finances, but it could also be burnout or injury. I confess there were times I considered “tapping out” and it had more to do with my mind than anything else.

    So I’ve listed the top five things I wish I would have known a heck of a lot earlier and I hope it enriches your BJJ experience and improves your game…

    Tip #1 Slow Down

    When I started in BJJ a year and a half ago, I had no skills and less smarts, but I did have strength. I used brute force but really all it earned me was far too many minor injuries and I ran out of steam quickly. This made grappling far tougher than it needed to be.

    Powering through might work for one round or even two, but after that? I wouldn’t have the gas to continue. In a competition? Though could be a big deal.

    Also by going too quickly and relying on strength, I wasn’t slowing down enough to SEE places where I might gain advantage.

    Tip #2 Breathe

    These days, whenever a newer white belt gets red in the face and sweaty, I make him slow down and remember the breath. Breath is critical for mental calmness that makes for better Jiu Jitsu.

    Tip #3 Keep Your Elbows IN

    Seems like a no-brainer for the upper belts, but when I was new, I’d get so scope-locked, that I wouldn’t notice my elbows were flared and I was getting arm-barred CONSTANTLY. These days, I am still a white belt and no Ronda Rousey, but I am at least staying in the game. I might not yet be winning as much as I’d like to, but I am holding my own.

    I’ve learned in the last year and a half that if I slow down, remember my breath, and keep my elbows in, I can often outlast a far larger and far more skilled opponent.

    Tip #4 THINK

    Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is a highly unique form of martial arts. It is not as reliant on size and strength as other forms of martial arts. It is a very cerebral sport and part of the growth process of being a white belt is to mature from being purely reactive to thinking tactically.

    It’s hard when an opponent has you smashed in side-control to resist the urge to do SOMETHING! ANYTHING to get out of that seriously uncomfortable place. But Jiu Jitsu is CHESS, not Tiddlywinks 😉 .

    Often, just being still and focusing on the breath forces our opponent to change tactics and move. Any movement provides opportunity for a reversal. Once we get more advanced, we can start predicting (or even directing) what that move might be and then using it for advantage.

    Tip #5 Tap

    Since I am a Type-A overachiever, this was one of the hardest things for me to learn in the beginning. Now? I have no pride. If someone gets the arm bar? I am not going to try and wrestle out of it, because even if I could get out of it? Often I strain something along the way and it isn’t worth the downtime.

    These days? The second I feel someone might have the submission, I tap. Then I ask if we can backtrack a bit so I can war-game what I did wrong so that, hopefully, it won’t happen again.

    Jiu Jistu isn’t an event, but a process. If we relax and learn to slow down, relax, and pay attention? The journey is far more enjoyable.

    We hope you will join us on the mats here in Mansfield. In the meantime have fun and stay frosty!

    Dojo Diva

  • Add a Little Aqua—The Perfect Compliment to Jiu Jitsu Training

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    Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is a fantastic workout. We at Gracie Barra Mansfield work hard to make sure of that. Yet, like all workouts, soreness and fatigue happen and old injuries can flare up. Instead of taking off completely, we can cross train in the water to help ease pain, soreness, inflammation and stiffness. Also, the best way to FIX a problem is to prevent it in the first place. By using some simple aquatic exercises, we can strengthen those areas most vulnerable to injury.

    Water is an ideal environment for cross-training and rehabilitation. Since we are effectively weightless while in water, our joints can get a break because there is zero impact. Also, water is three times more resistant than air, so we get much more workout than we might realize.

    As a writer, I have chronic issues with tendonitis. I also have problems with my back, neck and shoulder (courtesy of years of travel lugging around loads of luggage), which is why I add a regular dose of swimming and aquatic exercises to my routine. When I am diligent about complimenting my Jiu Jitsu training with aquatics, I feel better, sleep better and PERFORM better.

    It’s hard to do well on the mat when our body is stiff, and our joints are sore.

    Since I am smart enough to look to the experts, I’d like to recommend this article. Gracie Magazine offers 7 pool exercises exercises for rehabilitation and injury prevention. . .

    “The specific training of a fighter is already stressful enough and water training can complement and develop various physical qualities. In the water, you may use devices that can increase the intensity of the exercises through resistance, what works better because there are no impacts on the joints. It’s important to understand that exhausting workout routines and competition training can often overwhelm your body and change an outcome. This water training method was developed by Prof. Alvaro Romano who has for many years since the 1980s started to train athletes from various sports….”

    For the rest of the article, click HERE

  • Gracie Goes BACK TO SCHOOL! Three Tips to Stop Bullying

    The BJJ "Brothers"
    The BJJ “Brothers”

    Ah, BACK TO SCHOOL! At Gracie Barra Mansfield, we strive to support families and this means helping bully proof your kids. As an author and on-line personality, I can say that bullying never goes away. It seems that young bullies often simply grow up to become adult bullies. Though nothing will ever make bullies completely disappear, there are things we can do to minimize the damage they can do.

    Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is wonderful for helping our kids learn how to handle bullies, but Jiu Jitsu goes beyond simple self-defense. Martial arts practitioners might be prepared for a fight, but that in no way means we ever WANT a fight.

    Today we are going to talk about three simple ways Jiu Jitsu helps kids with bullying.

    Peace In The Plan

    We talked about this earlier in the year. As a society, we drill for EVERYTHING. We have fire drills and flood drills. Tornado drills. Hurricane drills. We make a plan for what to do if separated at the mall. What to do if Mom forgets to pick us up from school. Heck, our family even has a plan for the Zombie Apocalypse.

    But how many people plan (mentally prepare) for being verbally or physically assaulted?

    Often, just wargaming a potential crisis can help tremendously. If it didn’t, flight attendants would simply wait until the plane was falling out of the sky to bother telling us that our seat cushions can also be used as a flotation device.

    When you or your child trains in Jiu Jitsu, you are mentally preparing to be victorious and not a victim. Your child is practicing being in a bad spot and coming out unscathed (in a healthy environment).

    Body Language

    How do you feel when you deal with a person who refuses to make eye contact?

    What about a person who keeps looking at a phone and tapping her foot when you are trying to ask a question?

    How do you feel about people who smile genuinely when they see you?

    Most communication is nonverbal. Body language is a HUGE deal. School can be hard on kids, especially at the beginning of a school year. Are the old friends going to still be friends? Will there be a place she can fit in? Maybe the school is completely new and is a frightening and unfamiliar world.

    Jiu Jitsu instills a quiet confidence in those who practice the art. Confidence is nonverbal and it does affect how others treat us. Predators (bullies) are not looking for the kid who has a strong self image. They are sniffing out the insecure because the confident kid will just tell them to go pound sand. Bullying, manipulation and intimidation don’t work very well on the kid who has a strong sense of self.

    Having a TRIBE

    This strong sense of self can and does come from practicing a martial art, but it also comes from being part of a TRIBE. Bullies look for insecure loners because insecure loners lack a system of support. They lack peers who can be there for emotional support.

    Think of wildlife documentaries. The pack of hyenas (great parallel for bullies) isn’t looking to take on an entire pride of lions. They are looking for the sick, old or lost gazelle who wandered too far away from the herd.

    Bullies are cowards and the best thing we can do to bully-proof our kids is to add them to the Gracie Tribe. They can then learn to practice and live excellence and feel safe knowing they are part of something stronger than themselves. Maybe they don’t fit in at school, but they will always have their Jiu Jitsu brothers and sisters 😉 .

    Jiu Jitsu also helps train our kids to be world changers. The only way to get rid of bullying is to train kids to have excellent character. Don’t BE a bully and if you SEE bullying? Make a difference. Protect those weaker and stand up for what is right.

    We hope that you will come by and bring your kids. We offer an entire anti-bullying curriculum and look forward to making you part of our tribe!

  • Three Changes to Lose Weight, Gain Muscle & Build a Rockstar Immune System!

    Three Changes to Lose Weight, Gain Muscle & Build a Rockstar Immune System!

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    Here at Gracie Barra Mansfield, we are all about Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, but we are really passionate about health. We believe that Jiu Jitsu is a lifestyle and it is for everyone. That is why Dojo Diva (moi) is heading to the KITCHEN today!

    I even wore my favorite apron 😀 .

    For any kind of training to have benefits, we must approach it holistically. It is very hard to out-train a poor diet. Diet provides us with all the building materials, but what exactly are those materials? What are we supplying?

    If you were to build your dream home, would you want to make it out of cardboard, wire hangars, bubblegum and pressboard? Or would you prefer concrete, mahogany, mortar and stone? If you had your dream car, would you wash it with sugary sodas? Okay, not soda, just sweet tea 😉 . Or would you use clean water?

    If we envision our bodies as a structure that we are constantly building, repairing or remodeling, it is easy to be pretty horrified with what we are doing to ourselves with diet. Since I have about a GAZILLION food allergies, I have been forced to become somewhat of an armchair nutrition expert, so we are going to talk about some simple nutrition fixes that can improve your energy levels, your fitness and your overall health.

    I guarantee if you do these THREE things for the next 90 days, you won’t believe the improvement.

    Get Enough Protein

    This is one I get nailed on ALL the time. Since I work from home, it is easy for me to get distracted and forget to eat. We need to consume .82 grams of protein per pound of lean muscle weight. Research suggests that anything beyond the .82 grams is not effectively used and can actually turn into fat. But, I WILL say that while men who chug protein drinks are at risk for overdoing the protein, I imagine many of us are probably deficient so that’s where we will focus today.

    If the average person inhales coffee on the way to work and maybe gets some kind of a carb (muffin) then a quick lunch and bad snacks and a hasty dinner, odds are, protein consumption is WAY LOW.

    There are a number of problems that can come with lack of protein. First, most convenience foods are high in refined carbs and sugar, which will stimulate appetite. If we have enough protein, we will feel full longer. Additionally, if we aren’t getting enough protein in our diet, our body will start cannibalizing its own muscle.

    This is bad for the guys who maybe want to build size because not enough protein means not enough “bricks” to build more muscle. Also, if you are deficient, your body is tearing down and using the muscles you already worked to build.

    Lack of protein is also bad for the gals. The more lean muscle mass we possess, the faster our resting metabolic rate (that part where our body burns calories without us thinking about it). The less muscle we have, the slooooower the metabolism and age does NOT help this. A fabulous way to rev up a sluggish metabolism is to add more lean muscle. Hit the mats AND the weights.

    Protein helps us lose weight, build muscle, burn fat, have energy and stay healthy. One major cause of compromised immunity is malnutrition. For instance, immunoglobulin (the gooey stuff in our blood stream that EATS germs) is made of amino acids (protein). So prepare for cold and flu season with a healthy serving of eggs, fish or chicken.

    HYDRATE, HYDRATE, HYDRATE!

    We need to make sure we are getting enough water. How much is enough, though. Take your total body weigh and divide it in half. That number is the number of ounces you need per day simply to sustain LIFE. This does not include additional hydration we might need because it is hot outside, or we are sweating hard with training or we had a caffeinated drink that will dehydrate us.

    Remember, we need two servings of water to compensate for every ONE serving of caffeine. So have an 8 oz. cup of coffee? Okay. But add another 16 oz. of water to make up for the dehydrating affect of the caffeine.

    If you are feeling sluggish, sleepy, depressed, or like you can’t think, instead of grabbing an energy drink, try water. Those are usually signs of dehydration. Our body is a hydroelectric system. We have electrical signals firing all over at any given time, but they can’t function if we are dehydrated.

    Also, our lymphatic system relies on us having enough water. This web of glands acts as the body’s drainage system and without it, our immune system and cardiovascular systems would shut down. If our lymphatic system is thick and sluggish with toxins, that’s when disease and cancer set up shop.

    Remember that water carries out waste. So when you train super hard at Jiu Jistu, those muscles need water. Water will carry away toxins and lactic acid that build up and this can help ease soreness and fatigue and aid in a faster recovery time.

    Go Caveman

    I am not a proponent of any kind of fad diet, but I will say that I eat Paleo because it is a really great way to eat healthy without having to do a lot of math (I.e. counting calories) or thinking (How many points is that?). Since I am highly allergic to gluten, dairy (casein) soy and some nuts, this way of eating helps me be able to eat and cook without having to think a lot.

    Salmon with Basalmic Glaze
    Salmon with Balsamic Glaze

    Recipe for THIS beauty HERE.

    What does it mean to eat Paleo? Basically if an early hunter-gatherer could not have found it or eaten it raw? Don’t eat it. For instance, pretty sure Dr. Pepper was NOT around, but water was. No artificial sweeteners. No processed foods (those came AFTER agriculture was invented). No dairy because hunter-gatherers had not domesticated animals. Avoid nuts like cashews, because cashews are poisonous unless cooked before consumption.

    Eating Paleo DOES mean plenty of vegetables, fruit, fish, meat, eggs, healthy oils (like coconut, avocado, olive or almond oils) and natural sweeteners like agave, raw sugar, or honey.

    I have a very simple rule. If an EIGHT-YEAR-OLD cannot read and understand the ingredients? DO NOT EAT. We shouldn’t need a degree in organic chemistry to know what we are putting in our mouths. AVOID margarine, hydrogenated oils and Frankenbutter. This junk is made in a LAB and even ROACHES won’t eat it.

    Back to Paleo…

    What’s really awesome about this way of eating is, unlike other “diets”, the whole family can and should be eating this way. It isn’t a “diet” it is a way of LIFE. You will be fitter and your immune systems will be ROCKING!

    If you’d like to check out some of the SUPER YUMMY stuff you can eat on Paleo, here is my Paleo Recipe Board on Pinterest. I like it because it removes almost all the junk we shouldn’t eat, helps us steer clear of the most common food allergens (peanuts, wheat, milk) and most recipes are only a handful of ingredients so they are simple to make. And, if you are wanting your diet to work as hard as you do on the mats? This is a great option.

    Apply these THREE SIMPLE life changes—enough protein, enough water, clean eating—and your body will have all the building supplies it needs for a lean, mean, clean Jiu Jitsu machine!

    ~Dojo Diva